“WE” the reason behind the issues on elders care

We forgot that our grandparents had 3 to 5 children and our parents had 2 children and now we have only one child

We did not bother to adopt nuclear family living system and felt more happy in the name of privacy and independent living

We did not bother ourselves while putting our only child in day care center or extended day care centers

We did not bother ourselves while putting our child in residential school or hostels

We did not bother ourselves in sending the child anywhere in the world for earning money

We did not bother ourselves if the child work late night or when they don’t turn out to home due to official pressure

We did not bother ourselves while the life style got changed and enjoy ourselves in joining with children for malls, pizzas and more frequently in spending few thousand’s for dinner at hotels

We felt very happy when the earning child discounted 15 or 20 years of life earnings in new flat

We did not bother when the earning child discounted 3 years of savings in four wheeler(s) and traveled miles on tours and entertainments

We felt very happy in online chat and video conferencing when they work abroad

We felt very comfortable in taking their monthly money transfers to our account

We were very happy to know that our medical bill if hospitalized will be met by the employer under their group insurance scheme

We felt proud when the grandchild was admitted in foreign schools

We felt proud when the grandchild not knowing our mother language

We did not even thought anything forward when things were comfortable for our personal life and so the problems are faced today.